I’m sick of my immature friends acting like their relationship problems actually matter. Like… unless you’re main problem is with one guy for an extended period of time, I really don’t care. If you jump from boy to boy every month then shut the fuck up. You’re obviously going to end up sleeping with one of your ex-’boyfriend’s bestfriend at some point. …It’s not like you’re settling down or anything so why the hell are you acting like its a huge deal?
I can’t even see the problem is like… Samie meets a new guy that she really likes and who likes her. Simple solution, break up with the long distance and persue the new. We’re still so bloody young, fretting over this stuff is such a waste of time. If it were something like… "should I go to Ireland for 3 years?" okay, THEN I don’t mind talking it out wiht you. That’s a big decision and is going to affect a lot of things.
But if you come to me wtih a problem that starts "so i just met this guy and I think I like him, but I just broke up with ______ so I don’t know if I should call……" know that I’m probably going to blow you off with a "shut up and do what you want to do."
I understand the conversations that Ashely and I have. We’re both hung up on people that we want to spend like forever with, but they’re millions of miles away, and the miles are the only thing coming between forever starting now. …So when another guy here comes into the picutre its sort of a "well, should i?" situation… that’s cool. I understand. I don’t understand gaaah stupid teenage girl drama. THAT is what i don’t understand. …It wont even matter in 5 years! Get the @#$% over it! Grrrrrr. Or at least dont talk to me about it.*
*exceptions are made for Samie, The Midget, Helene and … Cassie.