When is it time for me to throw my voice in?
Posts are coming in from all over the place about Justin, his man blog, CFI-Canada and democracy. As per usual Zak is an asshole (he’s usually an asshole, right…but an asshole), Joe breaks it down unbiased and sensible style and Gordo makes me want to pee my pants laughing so hard but at the same time hitting the nail on the head. But then there is Ian Bushfield, who as first you want to be like “hahahaha…” but then you’re like “haha..ha….h…….a…oh, that’s not funny at all, because it’s so true.” And then there is this new site….which is starting to look pretty interesting…
As the pres of the Freethought Association of Canada I really feel like I need to just stay out of all of it. But that’s not really true Katie Kish fashion, (but keep in mind these are my opinions, NOT FAC’s!!) despite the fact that Justin himself asked me to stay out of it. I think that really goes to show how problematic this all really is.
It breaks down to two issues, in my opinion. The first is the future and sustainability of The Center For Iquiry in Canada and the second is multi-cause leadership. …So here are my unedited (its getting late in the morning and I have a class to go to) thoughts about what is going on.
Zak points out that a democracy in CFI is pretty much a delusion and says this:
“So, until more people get involved and more money can be raised, it’s likely Justin won’t be going anywhere, nor should he since we don’t yet have anyone with the experience or dedication willing to replace him.”
There are a couple problems here. The first is that Justin isn’t the only person. As someone who worked for CFI I’ve seen a lot of people come and go. People who are dedicated, who don’t mind putting hours at a time into CFI and who would gladly take Justin’s spot coordinating CFI Ontario. He isn’t irreplaceable at CFI Ontario. I think in the media, he is pretty irreplaceable, but that’s just because Im terrified of writing for things like Holy Post and going on the Michael Coren show so in my eyes, anyone that does that is amazing.
I’ve said it once and I’ll say it again and again and again. There are people in Toronto who want to work for CFI, if given the chance, they would apply. But this is all besides a very important point. …Justin founded CFI Ontario 3 years ago. How many consistent volunteers are there? Why hasn’t he found people that can hold up CFI as a place? 3 years of being the leading secular voice in Canada is a long time. And while I’ve seen a lot of people get involved, I’ve seen just as many who would have been firm and solid volunteers leave because of the way CFI is run. If I talk to those people and ask if it is okay to use their names I’ll do a follow up something to back this point up.
The Center for Inquiry - Ontario is not sustainable right now. There aren’t enough volunteers to do stuff (when I was working there I had to pull teeth to get 2 or 3 people show up to help me with an event.), the actual building is a mess and does NOT look like a think tank organization’s major building in Canada should…, the structure doesn’t allow for democratic processes even for the board of directors and I’ve seen unanimous decisions by the CFI general volunteers completely overturned by Justin single handedly.
So you may ask “Well, Katie, if you’re so concerned why aren’t you there being one of the pillar volunteers that you think CFI really needs to be sustainable?”… Well imaginary question asker, I’ll tell you, as this is my point number 2.
Some causes are controversial and some are not. It takes a moron to not understand why one cause might be more controversial than an other. Because of the previous issue Justin is pretty much the only face of atheism in Canada. I’ve been on a few national media outlets, but Justin has been on them all. And this is amazing. He speaks for secularists (agnostics, atheists, secular humanists, freethinkers, …) on a regular basis on national media outlets regularly. Its been amazing, he’s given a face to secularists and our efforts in Canada. He’s also founded most of the major secular players in Canada and really rallied up the Campus groups. Woohoo!
So lets google, Mr. Trottier, to see ALL of his accomplishments! …What is this? He has a personal blog?! Cool!
What? … I can’t say it better than other people have:
“words like “whiny” and “complaining” are throwbacks to old gendered stereotypes about big mouthed bitches who don’t know their place.”
“About the quote mining do I really need to point … Read moreout how intellectually dishonest it is?”
“I’m disappointed that at how ideologically driven your comments are especially considering that you are supposed to be the executive director of a secular humanist organization (CFI) that promotes critical thinking. Many of us have been having a hard time keeping CFI going in Canada in light of your misogynistic views Justin and we aren’t even the ones getting paid. I’d suggest that if this is really the path you want to follow that you do us a favour and resign for the good of the organization.”
“Justin: If people who don’t like your views are leaving, and those who find your blog and agree and then follow to CFI join, doesn’t that tend toward an ideologically narrow CFI?”
“I’m not saying he can’t speak, but as head of an organization he has to understand that his words are damaging to the reputation of that organization. So if he wants to say these things, and remain head honcho of CFI, then he’ll need to accept that many may leave.”
A letter written by a previous volunteer on June 6th 2009:
Hello all, please read below.
“Among cancers which affect both sexes, men are 60% more likely to develop the disease and 70% more likely to die from it. “we were surprised to see such consistent differences.” “Gee, now why would men think their health less valuable than women? All they see are “Women’s hospitals”, immigrant women’s health buses paid for by the government, and the highly publicly funded Women’s Health Network? Shocking!… Read more
and:
“Living in an epoch that is selfish as well as matriarchal, our lifeboats are no longer marked “women and children first,” only “women first.” We invent euphemisms, such as “choice” for killing, and sophomoric dilemmas, such as pretending not to know when life begins, to ensure that nothing hinders Virginia’s quest for Santa Claus. No obstacle must interfere with her goal of self-fulfillment — least of all an issue (as it were) of her healthy sexual appetite.
Some put the question in terms of a woman’s right toher own body. That would be valid enough in the realm of smoking, diet, liposuction or sex — but abortion? Abortion means controlling someone else… Read more’s body. Incidentally, I realize that as a man I have no authority to speak on the matter, but I’m not speaking as a man. I wouldn’t dare. I’m speaking strictly as an ex-fetus.”Heya. The above quotes are a sample of what Justin Trottier, spokesperson for CFI Canada, and also spokesperson for http://www.equalismactivism.com/, is posting on his facebook page.
I wanted to make you all aware that someone who speaks for CFI, an organization that promotes science and reason, is also speaking publicly in support of what I consider regressive, sexist positions and policies. In addition, we skeptics continually discuss possible ways to get women more involved in the skeptical community. I’m pretty sure this … Read moreisn’t the best way to go about it. As most of you know, his outspoken positions are the primary reason why I’ve stepped away from formal association with CFI.
I support everyone’s right to free speech, and these samples are from Justin’s personal FB account, not a CFI forum. However, Equalism Activism is a public website with Justin’s picture on the home page. In an ideal world, people would be able to separate the two. It is not an ideal world. In fact, when you google Justin’s name, Equalism Activism is the second hit.
I’m not suggesting that any of you do anything about this, just that you be aware. If CFI Alberta becomes successful in its quest to be the one-stop critical thinking shop for this province, it will only be a matter of time until some intrepid reporter asks about CFI’s opinion on Justin’s positions. You should be ready for it.In Skeptical Solidarity,
d
Aaaand more quotes:
“When people see, read, or hear about Justin, they think CFI, and vice versa. That`s basic branding. And this, then, is a PR nightmare for all of us.”
“This post illustrates exactly what’s wrong with this blog. This is a manipulative and misleading story (which isn’t surprising for the Star) which could have been exposed with about 10 minutes of research (which is how long it took me).”
“I think Justin needs to choose his cause. I agree that it is not good strategically to be heavily involved (let alone leading) two different activist causes, especially such controversial ones.”
“ I`m not sure how it could be, when the author of a blog allows the kinds of things in that Denis Prager post to remain on his blog, especially after it was repeatedly made clear to him that Prager is condoning marital rape, using highly sexist (against women AND men) stereotypes to `prove`his point. Justin, as the owner of the blog, is also the editor, yet he to this day has not even thought twice about the content of that post or any other. If you take a quick glance at almost all of the other posts … Read morein that section, you will also see his penchant for picking and choosing quotes that seem to fit his ideological argument, and ignore the actual facts and or real life subtleties within them.”
“Will: that was one of many posts where Justin’s use of citations/sources were called into question, along with his polemical misrepresentations of complex legal issues, see:http://www.equalismactivism.com/?p=1067… Read more
and
http://www.equalismactivism.com/?p=849for just two examples.”
Now how about some of my favorite quotes from Justin’s blog… starting with women should have sex, even if they don’t want to, because…like…come on! its just like taking out the trash, man!
“Allow me to summarise. In these two columns Dennis Prager presents the argument that a wife who cares about having a happy husband rethinks the idea that if she is not in the mood then that means she must not have sex. Prager shines a light on the differences between men and women, sex is far more important to men than it is to women and that a man knows his wife loves him by the fact that she has sex with him. Does mood always determine our actions? No. Are you always in the mood to get up and go to work in the morning? Are you ever in the mood to get up in the night and feed the baby? Take out the trash? Sometimes we have obligations to do things that we don’t feel like doing because they lead to good consequences down the road.”
This one makes me LOL, because we buy nothing for men…and so we have to pick, diamond rings and spoils or pay equality, not both.:
“She [justin's girlfriend] finished before me and while I was having my haircut completed, she was asked by the hairdresser if she wished to pay for herself or to wait. And the wink that followed was to mean that waiting would have the advantage that I, the male, would then be obliged to pay for both my haircut and that of my girlfriend’s. Tell me why women ought to have pay equality if they are to have purchased for them diamond rings, dinners and haircuts?”
Ya know what women! You man THINK you’re making progress! But really, its the men still making decisions for you! Mwa hahah…err. wait… isn’t that supposed to be teh OPPOSITE arguement of his blog:
“One last reminder to those feminists who like to pat themselves on the back and tell each other that they and they alone are responsible for women’s progress. All 9 Justices deciding Roe V. Wade were male.”
I can’t read anymore of it….The truly sad thing is that Justin has some really important issues raised on his blog. Men face sexism. Men work in high risk jobs. Men need birth control. Men often get screwed over in custody battles. Men have a higher suicide rate. Men lack support groups. But it’s all accompanied with ignorant comments about women and feminism. With an egotistical overtone that is really not helpful to anyone’s cause. If someone is going to be the face of any one cause or controversial organization - they shouldn’t try to pick up another. Especially one that alienates people. If I were the face of atheism/secularism in Canada…I wouldn’t be so active in my environmental things, I would stick to one cause if I was that prominent of a figurehead.
Justin thinks no one has left CFI because of his blog. I think it’s time we all stopped dancing around the issue. I don’t work with The Center for Inquiry - Canada, because I don’t agree with Justin’s other main cause. Actually, that’s not even fair. I support men’s rights. I DON’T support women bashing, grossly biased commentary about men’s issues, men’s issues trumping women’s issues, nit picking at articles because there is no “male voice” when there doesn’t need to be one, picking statistics that on their own support an argument but don’t in an overall sense, taking away women’s rights to give men rights and finally having the face of Canadian secularism association with all of these things. It is not healthy for CFI. And CFI IS losing volunteers despite what Justin would like to think. Myself and my hubby (John Xu) were very active at CFI and in campus groups. Neither of us are involved with CFI and campus groups now because of this issue. I know there are others, but we’re the only two I can really speak for. Hopefully other people start speaking up.
I wouldn’t be so upset, but I’ve heard and witnessed horror stories surrounding this issue.
Justin declining an interview from the CBC and accusing them of being sexist because they asked to interview me, instead of him???
Justin sending a response to a rape victim applying for a position within CFI saying that she is sexist and unprofessional because she has experience at women’s groups on her resume???
In my interview to work at CFI questioning the validity and necessity of my work as the women’s collective coordinator with a radio station?? Women are highly underrepresented on radio, men don’t need a specific group, they’re already the majority.
Telling me we can’t put “Equal opportunity” on our social service brochure because it’s sexist???
Using CFI contacts to promote his “equalism” blog???
Not allowing Debbie Goddard to come and do her talk on multiculturalism and gender at CFI because he doesn’t agree with the topic so he makes us do a panel with inexperienced panelists instead???
Having signs up in his cubical at CFI saying he supports men’s rights and a bumper stick about male bashing in the media???
UGH.
/Fin.
I left CFI for the same reasons. Is never have the guts to say it our loud. Thank you for this post. So much. I hope Justin starts to listen soon… For everyone’s sake.
“the actual building is a mess and does NOT look like a think tank organization’s major building in Canada should”
For my application, I included a list of ideas and initiatives. Cleaning and re-organizing the centre was one of my top priorities.
I’ll repost my commment from Joe’s blog. This is the direction I think the discussion should focus on:
1. Should CFI Canada move towards an elected board?
2. Like it or not, Justin’s blog is highly controversial. Many say that this has hurt CFI to some degree. Is this true? Some kind of decision should be made on this.
Thank you, Katie!
This is an important insight into the situation at CFI Ontario, as well as sane and balanced commentary.
Why can’t we have you as leader?
Cheers,
George in Saskatoon
best one.
Katie ksih for prez of cfi canada!
I like both Katie and Justin - have a huge amount of respect for them. I find the volunteer numbers lower during the short summer months. The vid project I am working on has gained mostly new members and most if not all are joining CFI. The problem with volunteers in any organization is strength of commitment - at least that is what I have found. New ones come and old ones leave.
I have not personally met anyone leaving on account of Justin’s blog. If people have, what is the big deal to say so - might as well get this stuff off their collective chests.
I think Katie and Justin should have a good heart to heart in person. I think it is more damaging to CFI to see this public infighting than someones personal blogs. You are both great people with great ideas and our movement needs both of you - maybe not agree with everything but have some kind of respect for each other.
unfortunately it’s impossible to have a “heart to heart” with Justin, as that would imply him giving other points of view drastically different from his own some consideration.
I hope that would not be the case otherwise these issues may quiet down for a time but will certainly rise again.
I would like to see others come forward who have left CFI because of Justin’s blog. I do not know why they fear coming forward. If there are many people who have indeed left then this does need to be addressed. I am neither pro nor con regarding his blog btw.
You go girl!!!! er, person.
i love you mom. <3
I knew Justin hated women, but I didn’t know he was pro-life. WTF? Reproductive rights are one of secularists’ strongest issues: anti-abortion sentiments have very little existence apart from religion - and, apparently, Justin. It’s like having a guy heading a Christian conservative group who’s a declared moral relativist.
(P.S. don’t buy too much into Justin’s rhetoric about men taking more dangerous jobs or about custody. In the US at least, when custody cases go to court, men win 70% of the time. And as for dangerous jobs, the reason industrial jobs are dominated by men is that they fight to stay this way, harassing every woman into quitting.)
Cheap. Seriously cheap Katie.
Although I have every intention of replying in full to your commentary, I feel it would be better to move away from the computer and think about this rationally before I say anything. So let me offer you a question instead:
You criticize (or rather a person you quote criticizes) Justin for making CFI ideologically narrow by airing his views. Do you think that your own use of the words “misogynistic” etc might do the same thing?
One of your issues is with abortion. Where I think the main issue being contended is when a fetus qualifies as a person and by proxy what counts as a person in general. This is a hugely contentious issue in philosophy and it shows no signs of being solved given the complexity of the issue.
Is believing that a fetus is a person misogynistic? If so why? And more importantly, by CALLING it misogynistic WITHOUT ever answering these important questions aren’t you attempting to make the movement “ideologically narrow?”
I would really like to hear an answer to this before I continue.
Payton:
From what I’ve heard about you (from various sources…all at different times), you calling my stuff “cheap” means very very little to me.
Im not part of CFI - so by me using words like misogynistic, I’m doing no such thing…. I’ve said it before - if this were Toni Van Pelt spewing about feminism all over CFI-Canada, in CFI-Canada interviews and on CFI-Canada mailing lists I’d have the exact same opinions about her… So don’t even try to break out the hypocrite argument on me.
As for your question about abortion….I see no relevance, and I have no wish to start a philosophical debate about it.
I didn’t say anything about abortion. My views about abortions are that if people want to have one, they should. If people don’t want to have one…then they shouldnt, but the options should be there. I wouldn’t call anyone a misogyinist for saying abortion is wrong, so don’t accuse me of it.
Someone else in my post was talking about abortion, not me. So if you’d like to contact her and talk about it, I’d recommend doing so… If I were you I’d also look into learning how to read quote boxes………………………….
Katie,
I didn’t need to read any more than your first sentence. This is extraordinarily immature and I’m not going to lower myself to the point of bringing people’s personal histories into the conversation.
If this is how you choose to conduct your personal blog then you are free to do so, but I’m not going to reply to someone who speaks to people that way.
phewph!
don’t let the door hit you………..err, maybe.
(for any of my beloved readers who wants to know wft THAT is all about, e-mail me, i’d be happy to share. you all know i don’t act like that toward people who don’t deserve it.)
Michael Payton is a pissant who deserves anything thrown at him.
Katie: Well done on this post. It is refreshing to hear someone speak out and not beat around the bush. I hope Justin puts together a response to this. It would be interesting to read.
Lauren: While I don’t exactly *thumbs up* the name-calling approach…I do thank you for your kind words.
As far as I know, Justin hasn’t even posted a single men’s rights article (via blog, podcast, or facebook) since July. When will everyone get tired of beating a dead horse?
when it stops moaning, obviously!
lawl. i laugh at my own jokes. some day…everyone else will too…
When the dead horse stops canceling interviews whenever the station wants to talk to Katie instead.
Mentioning an incident that happened over 3 months ago doesn’t really help your case.
zomg frances you are SO RIGHT. Everything that happened before last week is totally irrelevant to life, sorry. I forgot.
Its funny that you said nothing has been posted about men’s rights in x amount of time when this entire blog disruption amongst friends and foes exploded because of a men’s rights thing he posted recently. …Grood job!
@Frances
cool, the reply buttons actually work…amazing.
Oh…really? Because the quotes that are in your post are all from +3 month old posts. I mean, Justin could have joined a cult, become born again, and then been kicked out for talking back too much in that amount of time
Anyways, where was it posted, because I haven’t seen it on his blog…or maybe I just missed it. I would like to read it.
Frances, Justin has shown no change in attitude. He’s never taken down or renounced his anti-choice, anti-woman views. I’m pretty sure he hasn’t let Katie or John or anyone else do a lot of interviews - it’s still only he who speaks for CFI.